Thanksgiving Fun

Thanks giving turned out pretty good here. Melissa and Steve stopped in for a bit and dropped of the boys (James got no Pics of them grumble) Mom staid most of the day and left early afternoon for Bingo so it was us and the kids the rest of the day. James was home so it was very nice spending tome with him and he wasn't even on the computer. So here are our pics' To much food and a nap latter. We had a lot to be thankful for.

Steve, Mom and Melissa

Devon, Nathen and Trevor



Trevor, James and Mom

I actually like this pic of me :)

Nathen and gizmo. To much turkey

Hope u all had a great Thanksgiving

Letting Go

The holidays are coming up fast. And well I been rather grumpy about the hole thing. I was very upset about being told what I was going to be doing this thanksgiving. I have been cut out of the loop just like when James' parents lived here before. I have always hated them making decisions concerning me and the kids with out me. And now even the little decisions like this sting. But in the end it is making me a very bitter and not nice person.

I have decided to let go of past happenings and just be happy. To except that they most likely will not change and this will happen again. I am going to do my best to resist my instinct to rebel against there decisions good and bad. It just isn't worth the argument and really I am the one who ends up looking like the jerk because they have no idia James doesn't include me and he always gives me the "Oh, I thought I told u." shit.

So, still bitter, but I am making an honest attempt at being in better spirits about this. I am happy MIL s coming over. I am glad she is comfortable in our home and I am even happy to cook for her. I just would have liked to be included in the decision rather then told.

Thing of very late

Things have been so busy these days and I have been to darn lazy to put picks up. So, here they finally are. Having the YMCA on Friday limited us to our aria. We quickly came home with friends and had a chili dinner that was way to spicy for them :) Then being wet and cold out we headed out to trick or treat at the church. They had games and a play after. Trevor got to go on stage and won a prize. He was so exited. Chinese checkers and half the marbles are already missing now. lol


Nathen as a Dead kitty. Yes this was his idia.

Devon and Trevor playing games.

Hanging out before the play


And the Great Pumpkin was very good to us