I know it has been some time sense I have written anything or even got on to read anything. But today I just had it. I am so tired of having to defend my choice to stay home with my kids. As if I am a freak and letting down society by doing so. Sick of being treated as if I have nothing of interest to say just because I don't have dumb ass co workers to complain about or a boss and that because I "only stay home" I couldn't possibly be up on what is happening in this world out side my door.
Today when my sister in law criticizes me and my friends by saying if I got a job instead of staying at home I would know what is happening in the world. She even had the nerve to send this to all of my friends and family how I had sent a corresponding e-mail to. I expect it from others, from some with out kids, or working mom's in general at times. I am used to the better then thou attitude they carry, but not from family or friends. She really hit below the belt. Nothing makes u better then any one on this earth and nothing gives u the rite to judge some once choice of living.
Why is it that if u are a mom and work out of the house u are shown admiration, supported, every one seams to know how hard it must be for u. I am not saying it is easy, but it isn't easy staying home either. We make do with one pay check. So our things are not always as nice. We struggle at times to get the bills paid. And yes I crave for some adult contact from time to time. To talk about anything other then my kids. But no on talks because I am only an at home mom what do I know and of what importance could what I have to say be.
Then u can't even talk to other stay at home mom's because lets face it. It is a privilege to stay home with the kids and we have no rite to complain. So we sit quietly feeling gilt when things over whelm us. When we just need a moment to be ourselves and not a mom. We are supposed to even though the working mom would never feel bad about putting her kids in day care or having a baby sitter for a night our with co workers. We are not aloud. So, now I am going to go, because it is just about bed time for the kids and time to clean up.
Just Ticks Me Off
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On that note, you sister in law may be jelious that you get to stay home with your kids and she doesn't. If she too is a stay at home mom, then she is a hypocrite.
Beckie is right... what a bitch!
Also with your other stay at home mom friends... you do have the right to complain! About any damn thing that you want, kids, husbands laundry from those two assests.. that is your work, this is your job and those are your co-workers.
It's not easy. I wouldn't be able to do it.
Tell your sister in law too BUTT OUT! It's non of her damn buissness and if you wanted her DAMN opion you'd ask her. ANd also remiond her that it's not her job to e-mail and public embarress you to your friends and family members.
Then go tell April and let her go ape shit on her ass. :)
Thanks I have talked with her and so has James. Now her new conplaint is that my frieds are writing her to defend me and themselfs. Good for them and I will not me sorry for that. She is the one who sent out the mass e-mail coment not me.
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